HopeMakers: Disrupting the legacy of trauma.

Episode 5: Hope in Practice: Tools for Cultivating Resilience with Tony Burgess and Julie French

Dr Erica Bowen

In this inspiring fifth episode of the Hope-Makers podcast, host Erica Bowen continues her conversation with personal development experts Tony Burgess and Julie French, focusing on practical techniques for cultivating hope in daily life.

Erica begins with reflections on finding moments of hope during the pandemic – her parents receiving COVID vaccinations and the simple joy of watching neighborhood children playing in the snow, reminding listeners that even in difficult times, there are glimpses of light.

The conversation with Tony and Julie explores how they work with hope in their therapeutic practice, especially with clients who arrive feeling helpless. They explain how Havening techniques can clear psychological space by emptying the "trauma bucket," creating room for hope to flourish. They also introduce their concept of "Pink Bucket Thinking," a metaphor for distinguishing between helpful and unhelpful thought patterns.

The discussion reveals several powerful concepts: the importance of examining the meanings we give to experiences, focusing our attention on where we want to go rather than obstacles (illustrated through Tony's motorcycle lesson), recognizing that we all stand on a foundation of past achievements, and learning to see the "diamond" of potential within ourselves and others.

The episode concludes with three practical tools listeners can implement immediately:

  1. Being mindful of media consumption that may increase anxiety, choosing instead to engage with content that nurtures hope
  2. Strengthening self-concept through exercises like completing "At my very, very best I am..." statements
  3. Transforming "what if" questions from tools of catastrophizing into powerful invitations for possibility thinking

This episode offers both inspiring perspectives and actionable techniques to help listeners maintain hope and resilience, especially during challenging times.