HopeMakers: Disrupting the legacy of trauma.

Episode 4: Finding Hope in Every Challenge: Tools for Resilience with Tony Burgess and Julie French

Dr Erica Bowen Season 1 Episode 4

In this inspiring episode of the Hope-Makers podcast, Erica is joined by personal development experts Tony Burgess and Julie French, a dynamic couple who both live and work together as therapists, coaches, and trainers.

Tony and Julie share their journey in the personal development field, where they've been partners since 2005, working across various domains including corporate training, one-on-one therapeutic work, and coaching. They discuss their extensive experience with NLP (Neuro-Linguistic Programming), Havening techniques for trauma clearing, psychometric profiling, and even facilitating transformative experiences like fire walks and glass walking.

The conversation delves into personal stories of hope, with Tony recounting how his scout leader "Twiggy" instilled a powerful sense of self-efficacy and a "can do" attitude that has served as a reference point throughout his life. Julie shares her profound journey with an autoimmune condition called polymyalgia rheumatica, which took her from running marathons to temporarily needing a wheelchair. She explains how she maintained hope through this challenging time by focusing on what she could control and mentally rehearsing not just healing but coping effectively no matter the outcome.

Tony and Julie introduce their concept of "Pink Bucket Thinking" (freely available as a PDF on their website), which provides a framework for noticing unhelpful thought patterns and replacing them with more constructive ones. They share practical tools for cultivating hope, including:

  • Being mindful of what media you consume, especially during challenging times like a pandemic
  • Nurturing your self-concept by acknowledging positive qualities through exercises like "At my very, very best I am..."
  • Harnessing the power of "what if" questions positively rather than catastrophizing

This episode offers listeners both inspiring personal stories and practical techniques to build resilience and maintain hope through life's inevitable challenges.