The Hope-Makers: Finding Light in Life's Darkest Moments

Episode 3: Hope as Fuel: A Cross-Cultural Journey to Authentic Living

Dr Erica Bowen Season 1 Episode 3

At 35, Zeynep Orf made a life-changing decision that most people only dream about – she moved from Turkey to the UK with her young daughter, completed a master's degree in her second language, and completely reinvented herself. In this illuminating episode, Zeynep reveals how letting go of control became her greatest lesson and how blending Eastern spirituality with Western coaching creates a unique approach to hope.

After successfully navigating divorce, academic achievement, and entrepreneurship, Zeynep discovered her true calling had been whispering to her for years. Friends kept reminding her of conversations from 2014, 2017, and beyond where she'd mentioned coaching – the universe had been pointing her toward this path all along.

What makes Zeynep's perspective unique is her integration of Anatolian spiritual wisdom with modern coaching techniques. She challenges the Western obsession with future-focused hope, instead teaching clients to plant "seeds of hope" in the present moment. Her profound insight came through loss – when attachment to specific outcomes made her feel hopeless, she realized that letting go of control was the key to reconnecting with her authentic, naturally hopeful self.

Key takeaways from this episode:

  • Hope as "fuel that drives us" rather than attachment to specific outcomes
  • The power of three-minute morning writing to generate unexpected insights
  • Why being hopeful about yourself matters more than hoping for external changes
  • How raising your personal vibration contributes to collective wellbeing
  • The importance of giving hope to others through meaningful action

Zeynep's cross-cultural wisdom offers a refreshing perspective on hope – one that balances Eastern present-moment awareness with Western goal achievement. Her message resonates deeply: when you stop trying to control the future, you free yourself to live hopefully in the now.

Perfect for anyone feeling trapped by their expectations or seeking a more spiritual approach to personal transformation.