The Hope-Makers: Finding Light in Life's Darkest Moments

Episode 2: Breaking the Sabotage Cycle - From Workaholic to Balanced Entrepreneur

Dr Erica Bowen Season 1 Episode 2

After 17 years of building a successful hospitality business, Michelle Delport realized she had achieved everything she thought she wanted – except happiness. In this revealing episode, Michelle shares her journey from burned-out perfectionist to balanced women's empowerment coach, helping female entrepreneurs overcome the same self-sabotage patterns that nearly destroyed her.

Working 80+ hours a week, struggling with unhealthy relationships, and finding solace at the bottom of a bottle, Michelle had to confront a hard truth: success in one area of life means nothing if everything else is falling apart. Her wake-up call came when she questioned why she became an entrepreneur in the first place – was it to work herself into an early grave, or to actually enjoy the journey?

Through candid self-reflection and the development of practical tools, Michelle transformed her approach to success, finally achieving the work-life balance that had eluded her for decades. Now she helps other strong female entrepreneurs recognize their worth beyond their business achievements.

Key takeaways from this episode:

  • Why traditional definitions of success can lead to self-destructive behaviors
  • The importance of nurturing self-concept and accepting compliments without deflection
  • How keeping a daily "success journal" can rewire negative thought patterns
  • Why meditation and mindfulness are essential tools for sustainable entrepreneurship
  • The power of measuring where you are versus where you want to be

Michelle's transformation from feeling unworthy of self-care to practicing it guilt-free offers hope to any entrepreneur who's lost themselves in their business. Her message is clear: true success comes when you're empowered in all aspects of life, not just your career.

Essential listening for entrepreneurs, business owners, and anyone caught in the cycle of perfectionism and overwork.